Merrry F!@$ Xmas

Dont you love it when family come and tries to celebrate Christmas but there is the one asshole that cant handle any type of comment or anything that might "disrespect him"??

Well i had one tonight......I get off work at eight came home changed went back to work at 9 had to close up 945(12hrs 45min of work today), we having dinner10:00. We like to celebrate on the 24of dec . all good, nice dinner had couple drinks, open gifts, show him my arcade\mancave no issues till we get back up stairs. the guy dating My sister "8yrs" needed to ask if my sis dose not want to stay at my place can we take your car home?? They dont drive.

I did not have an issue with my sister driving home if she wants i made it clear that if she wants to leave she should say that she would like my car for the ride. I told him no prob as long as my sister is the one asking for the car. Also i told him that i need it back early in the morning. Asshole thought i was joking about the early morning thing. told him a couple times that. Now he goes into the living room stating to my sis that if you want to leave now that we should go and take the car its ok........I then replied very clearly that if in fact you "my sister" want to leave ask for the F1@# car not him!!

I was pissed for him saying that, now my sister i like we leaving??? Me being me told him if you want to F!#@$ leave, leave . At this point im headed to my little mancave leaving them with that, ass follows me and says why you disrespect me?? like that as he gives me the finger(im half way down the stairs) I told him get the F!@# out of my house if he was going to be like that, he came right down right to my face and kept going on how bout im an asshole and disrespect him Blah blah blah.

Little history on him Cant keep a job, in debt, they lived with me for about a year, Lent him money, always behind in bills, creditors on my sis cause of issues, asking for work, has no credit, i can go on....but my sister is with him and i respect that to a point. gets heated and fucker hits me grabs my neck starts choking me them the girls come down. YAY asshole stats going at my gf and my sis how im the bad guy and how much he hates me........

I love the holidays.........If you read this thanks. i needed to at least say something. now im not talking to my sister, I gave her the choice leave or stay...she left. I have pics of my neck and bruising of where he punched me. at this point im thinking do i go to the cops with this and make my sisters world harder or leave it???

what would you do??

Wow that really SUX. Let it go your pride might be injured, but your not really hurt. I would not let them in my house period unless they can get there shit together!! Why let them ruin your Christmas. I dont know if you have kids but its there Christmas too..

Again dont let them back in your home until they can be civil. JMO

Hope the rest of your Holiday is better!!

Merry Christmas!!
 
The guy has issues...

Not only would I not allow him back in my house ( EVER ! ) ,
but I would be very worried for your sister.

This sounds like a case of domestic abuse just waiting to happen...

I would suggest you try to talk to your sister privately
and tell her you'll support her and welcome her to your house anytime,
but want nothing to do with her boyfriend.

I'd document your "run-in" with this guy,
(...including pictures of your bruises )
for any potential future legal actions,
but I'd bite the bullet and not get the cops involved "this" time...


S.
 
I would have called the cops and told them both to find their own ride home. Well the BF would have gotten a free-ride to jail had you've called them.

You mentioned that they've been together for 8 years, things will not change for the better at all with them unless your sister leaves him (probably low self-esteem with him) which would most likely be impossible giver the circumstance. You should drop the ball and see if this doesn't start some kind of intervention.
 
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If anything it will open her eyes that this guy worthless and will never be good for her. We have told her that many times in the past. Specially regarding work and money with him. the guy is more comfortable working 3-4 days a week and leave her working 6. Maybe she will see it now that he has made things really stress full between us. Maybe not.......
 
I am a cop, and happen to be working right now, on Christmas. I have a two year old at home playing by herself with her new toys. We have already had multiple domestic calls today, i love having to go deal with other peoples drama, when they actually are home, not working, should be enjoying the time.....but, its always your choice to call police, simple assault would be the charge here, trip to jail, and a fine....
I was a detective for years, and you need to tell your sister that domestic abusers never get better. it always gets worse, despite what you may see on Dr. Phil. Trust me. I have investigated mutiple homicides, and guess what they usually started out as? In my experience, you are way more likely to be killed by someone you know or a family member, then a stranger.....way more likely.
In the future if he is at your house and assaults you, assault him back, its your house, the law will cover you. Or, the better option would be to just never let him there again. Nobody that assaults me gets invited back.....as a rule!!!
Good luck with the rest of your holiday, just remember, some people have to work so you can have that time to enjoy it
 
One: What ethnicity is he? I have a hunch.

Two: File a Police domestic assult charge.

Three: F*ck with him as much as possible.

People like that are why our taxes and everything else is going to sh+t.

Good luck...
 
I hope you where able too Blow off steam in your Man Cave after they left! Some people don'nt care about others it's all about them. They don'nt care if they are wrecking there chrismas or anything else for that matter.

Merry chrismas i hope everything clears up for the better!
 
Ouch, sounds like a rough day. This time of year has a way of bringing out people's true colors... sometimes that's a good thing, but in other cases it obviously isn't. All I can say is, he is obviously the one with the problem and he can only ruin your whole Christmas if you let him. He's not good enough to ruin your quality gaming time, haha. Good luck in however things play out from here, hopefully that scene will work out for the better in the end.
 
That really sucks man. the instant he grabbed my neck, he'd have gotten kneed in the balls, and when he doubled over, i'd grab him around the neck and lift up with all my might until i heard that fucker snap and held him there till he stopped twitching.
 
Wow, I would have called the police, if only to document it.
But there would never be another time, to hell with him, you tried to help sounds like many times.

Merry Christmas from strangers that care!!
 
First off Merry Christmas, secondly, I'm sorry that you had to deal with this situation... I agree with everyone here, I would escalate to the police. That behavior is unacceptable, and I would send that message as loud as I could. If the roles had been reversed this guy would not hesitate to call the police on you. I would also suggest a heart to heart with your sister, perhaps get the rest of your family involved, get her away from this guy. What this person did was so disrespectful so over the top that I would be concerned for her safety as well as other family members. It also does not sound like this guy has a stellar track record either. This guy is a loser, I would try to get your sister out before a kid gets in the mix.... Just one mans opinion...
 
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