to me, an arcade was a business. Therefore, i don't own an arcade. The best times i ever had at an arcade was at Putt-Putt's Super Saturday. All the video games you could play from 10 am till 2 pm on Saturday, plus a hot dog and a coke, for 3 bucks. Me and my friends spent many many Saturday mornings at our favorite Putt-putt doing just that.
I'd guess this was between 1982 and 1986, maybe into 87 a bit. None of us could drive, and we all lived out on the fringe of the 'burbs, so there really wasn't alot of opportunities for us to play video games, besides the one or two the local mini mart might have, and nothing was worse than having to leave a game unfinished, cause your ride (aka mom or dad) was leaving. So, that was the majority of the arcade experience for me. We did go occasionally to the mall, and hit the arcades there, but, we never had quite enough coins to really enjoy it, and i spent as much time watching as playing, as i wanted to make the 2 or 3 bucks i managed to schmooze out of my parents last. There's nothing worse than having to wait at an arcade when your out of money.
Anyway, of all of my arcade experience, the putt-putt was the best by far. They always got the new cool games, the ones i own and want now are all from that arcade, and i guess thats why i insist on setting all my games to free play. To me, its what i remember and had the best experience doing.
FWIW, i have 12 cabinets, 4 with 5 or 6 games each in them, they're all keepers. I have room for one more cab, and that'll most likely be a system 1 w/MM installed, if i can ever find one reasonably close.
So, do i consider my gameroom an arcade? Nope. But, when i turn out the lights and fire them all up, do i get that warm and fuzzy feeling and feel like i'm teleported back to a simpler time - absolutely. Did that happen after a set number of cabinets? Nope. It happened as soon as i got my first one home and working. Every cab i add it just gets better. Would i love a nice big Luna-Cityish arcade? Of course, is it necessary for me to relive those great experiences? Not at all.