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I came here to give update to those that know about my adopted mom. She started her 3rd type of Chemo and it was too much for her. I just got home from the hospital and she will not be leaving there. I gave my goodbye's and left. This is a dark day for myself and her family. I know my adopted dad was suppose to buy a plot/lot today, but he couldn't bring himself to doing it. Tomorrow or maybe middle of night I will be going back to the hospital to check on him how he is holding up. I must admit, I was extremely happy that she woke up from her drugged induced state and knew who I was. I grabbed her hand and held it. I was about to break down so I put her hand down to leave. She immediately grabbed it again and would not let go. That is a real tear jerker knowing you must leave and yet she doesn't want you to. I finally made her let go and darted out. I know that was probably the last time I will ever speak to her again, but at least I got to tell her I love her. I know there is a few unfinished business and I will PM those now.

Kevin

PS: What really sux.. their anniverary is Aug 3 :(
 
Sorry to hear about your loss... One positive note is that you got to see her again and let go, it wasn't a freak accident where you don't get a chance.

Take care and take it easy, you'll feel better again once the dust settles.

You have friends here, even though we're geeky computer nerds we're still good listeners!
 
Kev - sorry to hear man, my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
 
Kevin,

I'm so sorry to hear this, I know you were a great support for her during all her chemos. I applaud you for being there for her! Cancer sucks! I wish you strength and peace during this time, and know she loved you throughout this even if sometimes there was reason to doubt it, know she did.

My condolences to you and your entire family.
 
Sorry to hear it Kev, you have my number if you need anything, stay strong bro.
 
I came here to give update to those that know about my adopted mom. She started her 3rd type of Chemo and it was too much for her. I just got home from the hospital and she will not be leaving there. I gave my goodbye's and left. This is a dark day for myself and her family. I know my adopted dad was suppose to buy a plot/lot today, but he couldn't bring himself to doing it. Tomorrow or maybe middle of night I will be going back to the hospital to check on him how he is holding up. I must admit, I was extremely happy that she woke up from her drugged induced state and knew who I was. I grabbed her hand and held it. I was about to break down so I put her hand down to leave. She immediately grabbed it again and would not let go. That is a real tear jerker knowing you must leave and yet she doesn't want you to. I finally made her let go and darted out. I know that was probably the last time I will ever speak to her again, but at least I got to tell her I love her. I know there is a few unfinished business and I will PM those now.

Kevin

PS: What really sux.. their anniverary is Aug 3 :(

Sorry for your loss. I went through this with my Mom in July of last year, so I know what you are going through. Cancer sucks. :mad:
 
There are few things in life that are harder than loosing a loved one to cancer.

One of those things is actually saying goodbye for the last time.
 
Sorry to hear this Kevin. Stay strong. We're all here for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

-j
 
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