FIXED IT!!!!!!!!!!!
I ordered some z80's from bob roberts, (turns out they were th wrong ones so I didn't install them)
I went ahead and took apart all the boards and metal plates separating them, and reseated every chip, and made sure the ribbon cables were on there deep.
put it in and got a ram error. went through a self diagnostic, nothing wrong, flipped it back to play,and it's been perfect. Graphics glitches are gone too. (new ribbon cables I suspect)
For the record, if anyone intends to use the ribbon cables that bob and everyone else seems to have with 2 rows and 25 pins, they are a bitch to use in tapper.
It will require quite a bit of hacking(shaving, cutting, whatever) the plastic to get them to squeeze between the metal board dividers.