Another dream dead

Naw... it doesn't have to be that way...

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LOL. I see what you did there.

MGTOWs talk a lot about it, all she has to do is make "the one phone call" (to the cops)....sounds like you got it, OP.

Sucks man....personally, Ive been cheated on a few times...but lucky enough to never get married to any of them

You'll get through it, just try and make smart decisions in the future regarding any future relationships....or marriage again.

Personality disorders are exploding (BPD, NPD, Cluster B) and those similarly disordered are like a kid in a candy store with the unlimited online and social media access to "new and exciting" relationships....which is at the fingertips 24/7 now.

The sad part is, since personality disorders are born usually through some childhood trauma, and with the growing divorce rate and the new popular trend of single parenting, the odds of each subsequent generation of children developing a personality disorder increases dramatically as these relationships dissolve.....multiplying the problem.

I know a few things about dating disordered women....it's an exhausting shit show 24/7......and all I can say to you good sir is....once the dust settles, enjoy the peace and quiet!
 
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Just wanted to echo the "hang in there" sentiment. Divorce was one of the most painful experiences I've been through, and I wasn't put through the ringer (and no kids) as it sounds you may be.

It sucks. Time crawls while you're dealing with it, and it's tough for people who haven't been through it to completely empathize. But you'll get through it, and life will be much better on the other side. Seeing a psychologist was key for me personally. It made a huge difference in helping me heal, and helped me to have perspective I otherwise wouldn't have.

At any rate, all the best to you. I hope you weather this as best you can.
 
Hi guys its me! Long story short:
-wife cheated on me
-super nasty divorce... Sig other was in hospital mental wing for awhile
- im losing pretty much everything . I have discovered mountains of hidden debt I didn't accrue.



I am beyond disappointed. Rip big mikes cadillac arcade

https://youtu.be/SIRgiIfSUjg

Sorry about the whole situation. I was engaged to someone like your soon to be ex. It is hard to describe what it is like to someone who is/was not in it. I got "lucky" and after the last crazy episode my family stepped in and got me out. We never married Or had kids. I was young then and got lucky to get away when I did.

After all that I found someone, and I married her. It didn't happen over night and I had a lot of other people in my life. I guess what I'm saying is, it may hurt and suck now. But, it will get better, however you will have to be strong now, for you and your kids. I wish you all the best.

It appears you are selling your games, do you have a price list? I'm not super close, but I'm not super far away either. I would let you buy back in the future should you have the desire.
 
Sorry to hear that you are going thru all of this!!

Hopefully it will all settle down soon for you.

Keep head high and know things will certainly get better man!
 
sorry to hear about you going though this. I'm having my own issues but they pale in comparison to yours. Two years ago I got fired from a job that I'd had worked for 10 years in large part because the management was terrible and in a smaller part because I had become very frustrated with them. I had been trying to leave for most of that time because I could see the writing on the wall as the management hated their employees, lied to them and I was sure that they were lying to their clients. Also their idea of keeping people employed was to keep underbidding the contract they were on so there was no money left to give people raises or to hand out benefits to new employees. Also rather then teach people what to do they preferred to write people up at the drop of a hat(you miss one checkbox, etc.). The last straw was that I got a manager who kept staring over my shoulder for 6 moths solid and questioning everything I did...(this is extremely unprofessional)

It took me a year to find a new job and I'm glad that I don't work there anymore. The new place a found is much nicer but recovering from a year where all I could get was temp jobs has been pretty rough I'm not there yet. I'm moving on from the job I have had for a year because I was offered abit more money and better hours by the neighbors next door and I hope that I never run into that situation again.
 
Did I mention she was cheating with a fucking tranny?

holy shit this story just keeps getting darker and grimmer! fuck me dude. soon this will be a movie starring michael douglas. all kidding aside i wish you the best, keep your head up, never forget what ethics you have and standards you hold yourself too and that along with hard work will see you through.
thanks
blake
 
So, I'll be the rude one. How did a tranny play into this?

Sorry to hear it and hang in there. I agree with the other guy on selling/dumping games on a klov guy. I'd help if closer.
 
sorry to hear about you going though this. I'm having my own issues but they pale in comparison to yours. Two years ago I got fired from a job that I'd had worked for 10 years in large part because the management was terrible and in a smaller part because I had become very frustrated with them. I had been trying to leave for most of that time because I could see the writing on the wall as the management hated their employees, lied to them and I was sure that they were lying to their clients. Also their idea of keeping people employed was to keep underbidding the contract they were on so there was no money left to give people raises or to hand out benefits to new employees. Also rather then teach people what to do they preferred to write people up at the drop of a hat(you miss one checkbox, etc.). The last straw was that I got a manager who kept staring over my shoulder for 6 moths solid and questioning everything I did...(this is extremely unprofessional)

It took me a year to find a new job and I'm glad that I don't work there anymore. The new place a found is much nicer but recovering from a year where all I could get was temp jobs has been pretty rough I'm not there yet. I'm moving on from the job I have had for a year because I was offered abit more money and better hours by the neighbors next door and I hope that I never run into that situation again.
I'm going through a similar situation now, 8 years on the job and it's gotten to the point where
It's effecting my personal life, an example of the fuckery I've faced is being suspended
With our pay for several days and put on probation for signing my initials in a different manner then they have seen prior. I had the balls to ask " am I really being suspended because of the way I signed my name ?" That only got me another day added LOL
In regards to the OP that's a really fucked up situation and I'm sorry to hear , the whole thing with the tranny just made it that much more of a wtf
 
I'm going through a similar situation now, 8 years on the job and it's gotten to the point where
It's effecting my personal life, an example of the fuckery I've faced is being suspended
With our pay for several days and put on probation for signing my initials in a different manner then they have seen prior. I had the balls to ask " am I really being suspended because of the way I signed my name ?" That only got me another day added LOL
In regards to the OP that's a really fucked up situation and I'm sorry to hear , the whole thing with the tranny just made it that much more of a wtf

When you are in a situation as toxic as that, you need to get the hell out of there. At that point it doesn't matter what you do or say, they will find a reason to get rid of you soon.

You should make plans to leave sooner.
 
That no fault Shit is ridiculous.

Ended up pressured by childrens home and aid and dcfs to try a joint custody deal. ...and of course now that I signed on that I've been denied any aid . after bieng forced to change therapists and jumped through billion other hoops ... If I was a woman....is have sole custody and Shit tons if state aid..

I fear for what the future is gonna be like for my kid. Mom is bipolar has borderline personality disorder and just all kinds of Shit hoarding etc...

What did it for me was her on one of her rage tyrade jumped in my lap slapped me in the head screaming I hate youuuuuu Like some Fuckin banshee then backhanded my son. She ran off to bathroom to cry...grabbed my kid my meds and cpap machine and at last second my 45... I figured if I left it she would use it. Made it to my parents house next thing you know cops banging on door...windows... Bitch called 911 and said her husband was suicidal with an 8 year old and a gun. At that moment...knew I was just fucking done with all this madness. House was like some Hoarder shiit ... Every man has his limit...mine was set pretty high but still got pushed past that. Its been a crazy ass ride

Jesus, dude! I hope you just shook your head and rolled your eyes when you spoke to the cop(s). As much as what she did could/should have pissed you off, the best thing to do in that situation is remain CALM.

The good thing is you had your kid with you, who could verify at least some of what you told them.

I've never been through a divorce myself, but I've seen a few friends(both male and female) go through some pretty nasty ones. The only real advice I can give you is to find a really good lawyer, and if you have to have direct interaction with her, make sure you have an officer on site AND you record the entire thing.

"No Fault" or not, she should land in jail for that phone call. That's filing a false police report, and they tend to frown on that.

I'm going through a similar situation now, 8 years on the job and it's gotten to the point where
It's effecting my personal life, an example of the fuckery I've faced is being suspended
With our pay for several days and put on probation for signing my initials in a different manner then they have seen prior. I had the balls to ask " am I really being suspended because of the way I signed my name ?" That only got me another day added LOL
In regards to the OP that's a really fucked up situation and I'm sorry to hear , the whole thing with the tranny just made it that much more of a wtf

Suspended? I'd have called that "terminated"(especially when they tacked an extra day on... I'd have pushed buttons until they actually used the words). I didn't go through that "exact" situation, but I did have one similar. Similar enough to say that you need to just walk away from it. BUT.... try to pay some attention to how they go in the future. Trust me on this; their bullshit will come back to bite them in the ass, and even if you do nothing but "sit back and watch", it will give you a bit of satisfaction to know it happened.
 
I've had a couple opportunities to get married but the voice in my head kept saying don't do it, lol...

I had someone trying to get me hitched to their daughter WHILE she was going through a divorce (with a kid involved as well) and I'm thinking to myself....are you fvcking kidding me? She's already proven herself and both her sisters have been married, divorced, multiple boyfriends, etc.... what do I look like? Captain save a hoe? I asked what do I get out of marriage? I always love that dumbfounded look when I ask that and there's no legitimate return response. I don't care how pretty and beautiful they are, I'm not falling for the trap.....lol.
 
I asked what do I get out of marriage? I always love that dumbfounded look when I ask that and there's no legitimate return response. I don't care how pretty and beautiful they are, I'm not falling for the trap.....lol.

You have the correct course of action in your example, but... Forever alone?
 
I've had a couple opportunities to get married but the voice in my head kept saying don't do it, lol...

I had someone trying to get me hitched to their daughter WHILE she was going through a divorce (with a kid involved as well) and I'm thinking to myself....are you fvcking kidding me? She's already proven herself and both her sisters have been married, divorced, multiple boyfriends, etc.... what do I look like? Captain save a hoe? I asked what do I get out of marriage? I always love that dumbfounded look when I ask that and there's no legitimate return response. I don't care how pretty and beautiful they are, I'm not falling for the trap.....lol.

> I asked what do I get out of marriage? I always love that dumbfounded look when I ask that and there's no legitimate return response

Kids.
A stable family unit (theoretically).
Kids have gender role models.
Emotional support (theoretically) when you need it.
Better health (generally, according to studies).
Someone to take care of you when you need it.
Tax benefits.

That's just off the top of my head. And yeah, it's a generalization and doesn't apply to every individual or marriage.

In any case I'm not going to derail OP's thread any further.
 
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Holy crap dude... if you need a place to stash a game or two, let me know.

Also, I'll ask for everyone... let's see pics of this tranny. :D
 
I've had a couple opportunities to get married but the voice in my head kept saying don't do it, lol...

I had someone trying to get me hitched to their daughter WHILE she was going through a divorce (with a kid involved as well) and I'm thinking to myself....are you fvcking kidding me? She's already proven herself and both her sisters have been married, divorced, multiple boyfriends, etc.... what do I look like? Captain save a hoe? I asked what do I get out of marriage? I always love that dumbfounded look when I ask that and there's no legitimate return response. I don't care how pretty and beautiful they are, I'm not falling for the trap.....lol.

Are you still in high school?
 
Holy moly, this thread scares the crap outta me. Marriage is never easy, has its benefits, negatives, ups and downs. It's really about the kids, getting old, and having loved ones around you throughout the journey of life.

EVENTUALLY when this blows over, take time for yourself and son, but eventually find a companion that suits your life. Old and alone is not a happy life.

What can I say, we are all giving feedback and advice here, but you need to find a real strength through all this. I would believe your son is, so fight for his sake.

And

WTF a tranny???? Really?

WTF is this world coming to?

Time to bring some social order and discipline back to society. A society where elders are respected, and freedoms are not abused.

Each generation is getting nuttier and nuttier it seems like.

Scary future indeed.....men are not men, women are not women anymore, WTF is this world coming to?

Just my $0.02.

Stay strong, you stay normal, and be a good role model for your son.
 
You know, I noticed you'd been away a while yesterday and wondered what was up. No, really. I was re-reading some pages from the Zinfer's arcade thread and ran into names I hadn't seen for a while and looked them up.

I'm really sorry to hear about your troubles. Like others have said, you'll get through this, one day at a time if needed, and then rebuild. Even if you do have to liquidate your arcade, it can be rebuilt. And based on posts here from others that have gone through a divorce, they often are rebuilt.

So she ran up a mountain of debt and hid it?

Yep. Once I wrangled the finances it was pretty apparent what she had done. Were talking about someone who is a bipolar narcisstic sociopath. .. 10k in insurance claim money gone.... Blown on stupid Shit massages chiropractor books craft Shit art Shit whatever. Its funny her apartment is already like hoarders... Somehow passes dcfs standards though. ..interesting.


Got letter from Pnc lawyers today looks like theyre gonna go for foreclosure so it aint looking too good for this kid. House is 5500 behind and climbing now with BS fees
 
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