Another dream dead

Glad you're back. That's money well spent to move on from the madness.

If you ever want to vent or chat feel free to pm me and I'll provide a sympathetic ear at the least buddy.
 
Sorry to hear of your troubles..

Hang in there, things will only get better after the divorce.

You may be better off selling your games to friends and fellow KLOVers with the understanding that you have an option to buy the game(s) back when your are financially sound once again. You are better off selling them before your Soon-to-be-EX sells them for you. It has happened here to other KLOVers! Find good homes or temporary homes for your treasures before she sells your stuff for pennies on the dollar!

Good luck with the divorce. May the judge smile in your favor!
 
Sorry to hear of your troubles..

Hang in there, things will only get better after the divorce.

You may be better off selling your games to friends and fellow KLOVers with the understanding that you have an option to buy the game(s) back when your are financially sound once again. You are better off selling them before your Soon-to-be-EX sells them for you. It has happened here to other KLOVers! Find good homes or temporary homes for your treasures before she sells your stuff for pennies on the dollar!

Good luck with the divorce. May the judge smile in your favor!

This is great advice.
 
Wait, what? Why would you sell all your games if she cheated on you?

Way I see it (and it oughtta be) is she broke the marriage vows, therefore she is the one to pay YOU alimony. You held up your end of the bargain - everything you both would have earned and accumulated in the future together, you are now owed.

Least, that's the way them whores work it when we break the vows...

They want equal rights? She has the right to pay you half of her salary until she dies. She has the right to give up custody of her child/children to you. She has the right to gtfo of your home and lose her equity. She has the right to supervised visits by state agencies. And she has the right to a swift kick in the cooter :D
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WANTED!!! : DECO Cassette System Cages/PCB's - Amplifone M48AAW00X Tubes - Robotron Cabaret - NeoSaveMasta - PuLiRuLa PCB - Sailor Moon PCB
 
Your going thru hell right now but you will survive this hell.
I have faith that you will.

Keep your friends close to you.

A friend of mind went through a divorce. I had to go to a judge and explain the games she said that we're his Wasn't. They were mine and he was just storaging them for me.

Your sanity will get you through this..

Keep the faith. Keep moving forwards.
 
Wait, what? Why would you sell all your games if she cheated on you?

Way I see it (and it oughtta be) is she broke the marriage vows, therefore she is the one to pay YOU alimony. You held up your end of the bargain - everything you both would have earned and accumulated in the future together, you are now owed.

Least, that's the way them whores work it when we break the vows...

They want equal rights? She has the right to pay you half of her salary until she dies. She has the right to give up custody of her child/children to you. She has the right to gtfo of your home and lose her equity. She has the right to supervised visits by state agencies. And she has the right to a swift kick in the cooter :D
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WANTED!!! : DECO Cassette System Cages/PCB's - Amplifone M48AAW00X Tubes - Robotron Cabaret - NeoSaveMasta - PuLiRuLa PCB - Sailor Moon PCB

Funny how it doesn't work that way though, does it? Sorry for your troubles op....known personally many men in your situation. Best of luck to you as you progress through this time in your life.

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Yeah I dunno, the court sides with women on lots of things relating to marriage/kids but... I mean... if she cheated on him, she 100% should be paying alimony... or if he was the primary financial provider, she at least shouldn't be getting money from the divorce. It should just be done and over with.

If he's paying HER alimony, he has a crappy lawyer or something...
 
Sorry to hear this, man. I've never gone through a divorce, but I've heard they can get real ugly.

I'm curious, though..... and no, it doesn't really matter.... but which direction is the tranny heading? M -> F, or F -> M?

Cheating is cheating, and it's wrong no matter what. I'm wishing you the best of luck moving forward.
 
I skipped all that bullshit right up front..

"F marriage, ill take the 18 years of C support instead" route.

Saved a ton of money and advil... still got my kid joint custody .
 
Wait, what? Why would you sell all your games if she cheated on you?

Way I see it (and it oughtta be) is she broke the marriage vows, therefore she is the one to pay YOU alimony. You held up your end of the bargain - everything you both would have earned and accumulated in the future together, you are now owed.

Least, that's the way them whores work it when we break the vows...

They want equal rights? She has the right to pay you half of her salary until she dies. She has the right to give up custody of her child/children to you. She has the right to gtfo of your home and lose her equity. She has the right to supervised visits by state agencies. And she has the right to a swift kick in the cooter :D
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WANTED!!! : DECO Cassette System Cages/PCB's - Amplifone M48AAW00X Tubes - Robotron Cabaret - NeoSaveMasta - PuLiRuLa PCB - Sailor Moon PCB

Yeah I dunno, the court sides with women on lots of things relating to marriage/kids but... I mean... if she cheated on him, she 100% should be paying alimony... or if he was the primary financial provider, she at least shouldn't be getting money from the divorce. It should just be done and over with.

If he's paying HER alimony, he has a crappy lawyer or something...

I believe that Illinois (where the OP is from) is a no fault divorce state, which means the assets and debts of a marriage are to be divided according to what is essentially a formula regardless of who broke vows, screwed up, or is the asshole. The goals of no fault divorce include making it easier to get divorced (since you can both just agree to split) and to reduce what can be crippling attorney fees (since you don't have to spend a lot of time fighting over who caused the divorce). However, the devastating financial issue here is that it sounds like the wife in this case amassed what a court and debtors could consider marital debt, which would be divided between both parties. The OP might not have known that his wife was running up debt, but since it happened during the course of the marriage, he may (or hopefully may not) have to help pay it off. Sadly, it sounds like that is yet another way that the wife f*#$ed over the OP.

All legal talk aside, Muel has good advice -- selling to friends and people you trust might help you reclaim the games you care the most about after you get through this awful period. I'm so sorry for what you are going through and best wishes to you during this ordeal!
 
I got divorced almost 20 years ago, From this moment on do not believe ANYTHING SHE SAYS. She is lying. I had a female judge, I made sure I had a female lawyer, she cheated on me. Long story short, I got sole custody, three kids, wife ordered to pay me child support, (never saw a dime, but it kept me from having to deal with her) . Raised my kids right, Got remarried and my current wife treats them as her own. The ex tried to get back in to my kids life, all she did was trash me to them. they told her to take a hike. I know it is a rough road, but you can get over it and come out better than before. I agree, sell them to friends with an option to buy back, be like a loan with collateral. Any questions you can PM me. Good Luck. Mike
 
Sorry to hear. If I were closer I'd help you out any way I could. Stay with community. Don't be a stranger.
 
That no fault Shit is ridiculous.

Ended up pressured by childrens home and aid and dcfs to try a joint custody deal. ...and of course now that I signed on that I've been denied any aid . after bieng forced to change therapists and jumped through billion other hoops ... If I was a woman....is have sole custody and Shit tons if state aid..



I fear for what the future is gonna be like for my kid. Mom is bipolar has borderline personality disorder and just all kinds of Shit hoarding etc...

What did it for me was her on one of her rage tyrade jumped in my lap slapped me in the head screaming I hate youuuuuu Like some Fuckin banshee then backhanded my son. She ran off to bathroom to cry...grabbed my kid my meds and cpap machine and at last second my 45... I figured if I left it she would use it. Made it to my parents house next thing you know cops banging on door...windows... Bitch called 911 and said her husband was suicidal with an 8 year old and a gun. At that moment...knew I was just fucking done with all this madness. House was like some Hoarder shiit ... Every man has his limit...mine was set pretty high but still got pushed past that. Its been a crazy ass ride
 
That's how courts work, they always side with the woman with some exceptions even if she's wrong. Immeasurably messed up but what can you do the law is law. I've been in a toxic relationship before man just pull through it gets better.
 
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